Understanding Benzodiazepine Addiction and Co-Occurring Hoarding Disorder
Benzodiazepines are sometimes prescribed to alleviate severe anxiety—but new problems in the form of drug addiction and hoarding disorder arise when these medications are abused. Understanding benzodiazepines, the brain, anxiety, and the roles they play in addiction and hoarding will aid you in helping your loved one seek treatment and providing invaluable support throughout the recovery process.
Food containers full of rotting produce. Clusters of dishes and piles of dirty clothes. Empty prescription bottles scattered across the floor. Toppling stacks of books, magazines, and miscellaneous paperwork—all of them covered in a thick veil of dust.
Neither hoarding disorder nor benzodiazepine addiction discriminate in the things (or the people) they collect. If you love someone who struggles with both of them, you know that it’s about more than chaotic uncleanliness, but it may still be hard to understand why your loved one seems to be living in such an unhealthy and dangerous way—and how it started. Rather than turn away from that frustration, let it be what inspires you to learn more about these disorders, and how you can best support your loved one in seeking recovery.
Understanding Benzodiazepines, the Brain, and Anxiety
Compulsive hoarding disorder, characterized by an intense fear of getting rid of things—regardless of their value—is often caused by severe anxiety. Prescription benzodiazepines, such as Xanax or Klonopin, are sometimes prescribed to manage that anxiety, but they only slow down the brain’s GABA neurotransmitter temporarily—and when the medication wears off, sufferers need more of the drug to achieve the same calming effect.
Those are the roots from which addiction can grow. But if we’re going to truly understand what it is that our loved ones suffer from, we need to acknowledge that, for many, addiction is a defense mechanism—a way to make it from one day to the next. Holding onto things with sentimental value could build a feeling of safety in someone’s life, especially if those things have some kind of relationship to someone they’ve lost. Or, perhaps they have intense anxiety around knowing what to keep and what to discard, and simply keeping everything is the only way they know how to manage that anxiety.
Likewise, there’s a perception that benzodiazepines simply induce a sense of calm in those who take them, but for many, especially those who live with the severest forms of anxiety, what they actually create is a sense of normalcy—of being able to go to the grocery store, pick their kids up from school, or make a hard phone call. In these situations, benzodiazepines make everyday tasks possible, which in turn makes them all too easy to rely on—and difficult to give up.
Relief from severe anxiety can feel so good—so euphoric—but addiction can quickly take hold if tolerance builds while anxiety levels remain the same. Even more problematically, benzodiazepines can worsen existing anxiety when abused, and that means that they can cause co-occurring disorders to develop tangentially with an addiction.
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Helping Your Loved One Seek Treatment
To help your loved one, you must first understand that they likely see each of the things they own as valuable, sentimental, or at least extremely unique—and therefore vital to retain. Meet them where they are—wherever that is. Because getting treatment for addiction would require your loved one to leave behind his or her possessions and risk losing them, this means that initially focusing on the hoarding is simultaneously the most important and, often, most difficult step—even though the underlying anxiety must be the root focus during treatment.
It can be difficult to know just what to say and do in order to get the importance of residential treatment across to your friend or family member, but there are definite do’s and don’ts as you encourage them to seek professional help:
- DO use similar language to that of your loved one when referring to his or her possessions; i.e. “things,” “stuff,” “collections,” etc. While you may not agree with these descriptions, it is important that your loved one feel as though you’re on their side, and that you aren’t attacking or judging them.
- DON’T use harsh or judgmental language in regards to your their hoarding, such as referring to it as “junk,” trash” or “worthless.” Those who hoard, including your loved one, are aware they do it—and are very likely to feel ashamed of it. Using degrading language will only exacerbate this and make it more difficult for them to open up about their addiction.
- DO discuss measures of safety, but be sure to do it calmly. Focusing on getting rid of items and how many there are is secondary to making sure that your loved one has clear paths to important areas; i.e. the front door, bathroom, fire escape window, etc.
- DON’T touch or move your loved one’s belongings without explicit permission. This is especially important leading up to the push for residential treatment, as it will require leaving possessions behind, and disrupting his or her home and things will be an immense source of anxiety and pain.
Support Throughout the Recovery Process
Throughout this trying journey, it is important that you remain a source of support and strength for your loved one, while also staying mindful and cognizant of your own health and well-being in the process. Treat your body, mind, and heart with respect. Eat well even when it’s easier to rely on food for comfort, get fresh air and exercise whenever you can, and aim for a full night of sleep in order to counterbalance the potential stress of this process. Consider seeking out therapy for yourself in order to talk through difficult emotions and situations you encounter throughout this time.
Above all, remind your loved one that they are not alone in their struggle—and remember that neither are you. While it may be difficult to retain a positive attitude and optimistic outlook during what will likely be a trying process for you both, the key to recovery and a brighter future lies in providing lots of love, support, and encouragement for your loved one—and making sure to seek out the same for yourself from your own support network.
Alta Mira prides itself on individualized and compassionate treatment using research-based methods, and a caring, knowledgeable professional can give you or your loved one the help needed to live the best life possible. We treat addictions and co-occurring disorders together so that exiting treatment and building a healthy future is possible. Contact us today for more information if you or your loved one is struggling with benzodiazepine addiction or hoarding disorder.